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19

Jun

hamishthehobbit:

femmeslasher:

cattstark:

fandom-fanboyism:

courtneybeth:

Oh my fucking GOD THIS IS PERFECT

IT’S PERFECT BECAUSE WHO WOULD WANT TO STEAL A BOOK FROM SOMEONE IN THE STREET

I had to dig for the source for some reason…but here it is:

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I AM GOING TO DO IT

I AM GOING TO MAKE ONE OF THESE

(Source: yeptea)

18

Jun

heleclcl:

erikatheicyone:

floozys:

boys will be bo-“

*flies in* 

*punches you in the face*

bOYS WILL BE HELD RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS LIKE EVERYONE ELSE 

Reblog forever until everyone groks. 

i didn’t know what grok is so i googled it 

To grok /ˈɡrɒk/ is to intimately and completely share the same reality or line of thinking with another physical or conceptual entity

omg that’s really cool

 

What an excellent word!  

17

Jun

Don't ever hesitate. Reblog this. TUMBLR RULE. When you see it, REBLOG IT.

The original post only has US helplines. I've added UK helplines underneath. It would be great if people could add numbers from everywhere in the world.
Depression Hotline:
1-630-482-9696
Suicide Hotline:
1-800-784-8433
LifeLine:
1-800-273-8255
Trevor Project:
1-866-488-7386
Sexuality Support:
1-800-246-7743
Eating Disorders Hotline:
1-847-831-3438
Rape and Sexual Assault:
1-800-656-4673
Grief Support:
1-650-321-5272
Runaway:
1-800-843-5200, 1-800-843-5678, 1-800-621-4000
Exhale:
After Abortion Hotline/Pro-Voice: 1-866-4394253
Child Abuse:
1-800-422-4453
** UK Helplines:
Samaritans (for any problem):
08457909090 e-mail jo@samaritans.org
Childline (for anyone under 18 with any problem):
08001111
Mind infoline (mental health information):
0300 123 3393 e-mail: info@mind.org.uk
Mind legal advice (for people who need mental-health related legal advice):
0300 466 6463 legal@mind.org.uk
b-eat eating disorder support:
0845 634 14 14 (only open Mon-Fri 10.30am-8.30pm and Saturday 1pm-4.30pm) e-mail: help@b-eat.co.uk
b-eat youthline (for under 25's with eating disorders):
08456347650 (open Mon-Fri 4.30pm - 8.30pm, Saturday 1pm-4.30pm)
Cruse Bereavement Care:
08444779400 e-mail: helpline@cruse.org.uk
Frank (information and advice on drugs):
0800776600
Drinkline:
0800 9178282
Rape Crisis England & Wales:
0808 802 9999 1(open 2 - 2.30pm 7 - 9.30pm) e-mail info@rapecrisis.org.uk
Rape Crisis Scotland:
08088 01 03 02 every day, 6pm to midnight

15

Jun

Principal fires security guards to hire art teachers — and transforms elementary school

knitmeapony:

So when you start caring about kids, giving them options and hope, and stop treating them like criminals and warehousing them, they start to improve?  WHO WOULD HAVE THOUGHT.  

OOPS LOOKS LIKE ART AND MUSIC AND DANCE AND THEATER ARE IMPORTANT.

14

Jun

titotibok:

Janani - “trans/national” (CUPSI 2013)

 

When I tell my mother 
how long I’ve been sitting
in the shiftiness of a female body,
she cries
a million different kinds of monsoon tears.
She tells me about
the white men who colonized her country,
her nightmares.
her mother’s sari soaked in saltwater,
the traumas she screams about 
this is what I remember
when I talk to white trans men
and witness the million different ways
they take up space
in my community,
and speak for trans women of color,
and treat femmes as arm candy,
and do not own their position as white men.

Brothers,
what I mean is
did you think the M in FTM stood for misogyny?
What I mean is
what about your female socialization
do you think affords you a free pass to patriarchy?
What I mean is
I understand your bodies have not always been yours
but they have always been beautiful,
you have always had words for them. 

My testosterone is made by Israel’s largest company.
There is colonization running through my bloodstream
Every time I take a shot
my muscles feel out of place for several days.
But there is some perverse satisfaction in this,
that even in my body
masculinity takes up too much space.

Mom, you’re right.
this is a painful process.
It is violence.
It is scarring.

But I’m trying to believe in something greater:
that there are ways of being a man
that do not involve being a white man.

When I tell my grandmother
that I’m ready to be honest with my body,
she says,
ok, make sure to call me more often,
and I’m sending you a drum set.
For days I have no idea what she means
but then I realize 
in India only boys ever play the drums,
and what my grandmother means is
there are ways of being a man
that do not involve being an American man,
that you can still play your music with us,
that I do not have words for this process of your becoming
but I will work around it with art and love.

Grandmother, mom,
there is a way to do this ethically.
I will build some other, new-old kind of masculinity.
I will not worry about the words for it in English.
I will honor the mothers in my history,
the goddess in my name,
I will play the drums for you.

13

Jun

yellow-dress:

sonic-hip-attack:

guardiansilence:

sonic-hip-attack:

sanityscraps:

joopi:

you’re not the only one who’s frickin’ speechless









This is what happens when you challenge a one-sides argument. Funny, misogynist men reacted the same way to the first Feminists with actual structural issues in their sights opposed to perceived. Anyway, one commonly toted concept in Feminism is the idea of the “Angel” and “Monster.” This is not special to portrayals of women, but the terms “Super-man” and “Super-villain” would function in reference to men thanks to pop-culture of the last 50+ years. This would likely be one of several topics covered in the project.

Except feminism or ~misandry~ isn’t to blame for the idea of supermen and supervillains. Those are insertion tropes for men to feel super powerful. Everything about the video games industry for decades has been built on capturing men’s interest, with a few table scraps thrown here and there for women. 
The “Angel” and “Monster” dualistic trope is a response to oppressive gender roles placed on women, and the dual expectations placed on them, particularly portrayed in 19th century literature.  Men have some constricting expectations placed on them, but it is not the fault of man-hating women. It’s the fault of a system built around keeping men at the top.
At best, you can build an argument that patriarchal standards for what is an “ideal” man influences the design of Super Men (rippling muscles and whatnot), but that is not misandry as MRA’s define it. It’s not a bunch of bra-burning feminists saying “YEAH, this is what a REAL MAN is, and you and your tiny penis should die in a fire for not measuring up to this! RAWR! GURRRRL POWER!”
It’s absurd to think misandry is to blame for any unfair representations of guys in video games, comics, movies, etc. Because no matter how unrealistic the man is, the lady counterparts STILL tend to be A) Romance/Sex interests only, B) In constant need of rescuing because they are feeble or stupid in comparison to the almighty man, and/or C) Killed conveniently to give the dude character ~plot~.  
I’d rather be oh-so-oppressed by being represented as powerful and effectual than represented by my looks and my ability to get Fridged.
So, no, this is not equivalent to the response misogynists had to the idea of studying sexism in video games. This is equivalent to a bunch of entitled boys who have been getting what they wanted in video games for decades, getting together to whine about how women are ruining everything by asking for equal representation.

Bringing this back because relevance.

You know, I’d be pretty interested in an “episodic web video series” that attempts to “examine how males are portrayed in video games and why those portrayals can be damaging.”  But saying that those portrayals are due to misandry is a bit of a stretch in my opinion—unless the argument is about internalized hatred, but that’s not how the word seems to be commonly used.  It’s all especially odd alongside all the men on the internet saying that video games are made by men for men.  

yellow-dress:

sonic-hip-attack:

guardiansilence:

sonic-hip-attack:

sanityscraps:

joopi:

you’re not the only one who’s frickin’ speechless

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This is what happens when you challenge a one-sides argument. Funny, misogynist men reacted the same way to the first Feminists with actual structural issues in their sights opposed to perceived. Anyway, one commonly toted concept in Feminism is the idea of the “Angel” and “Monster.” This is not special to portrayals of women, but the terms “Super-man” and “Super-villain” would function in reference to men thanks to pop-culture of the last 50+ years. This would likely be one of several topics covered in the project.

Except feminism or ~misandry~ isn’t to blame for the idea of supermen and supervillains. Those are insertion tropes for men to feel super powerful. Everything about the video games industry for decades has been built on capturing men’s interest, with a few table scraps thrown here and there for women. 

The “Angel” and “Monster” dualistic trope is a response to oppressive gender roles placed on women, and the dual expectations placed on them, particularly portrayed in 19th century literature.  Men have some constricting expectations placed on them, but it is not the fault of man-hating women. It’s the fault of a system built around keeping men at the top.

At best, you can build an argument that patriarchal standards for what is an “ideal” man influences the design of Super Men (rippling muscles and whatnot), but that is not misandry as MRA’s define it. It’s not a bunch of bra-burning feminists saying “YEAH, this is what a REAL MAN is, and you and your tiny penis should die in a fire for not measuring up to this! RAWR! GURRRRL POWER!”

It’s absurd to think misandry is to blame for any unfair representations of guys in video games, comics, movies, etc. Because no matter how unrealistic the man is, the lady counterparts STILL tend to be A) Romance/Sex interests only, B) In constant need of rescuing because they are feeble or stupid in comparison to the almighty man, and/or C) Killed conveniently to give the dude character ~plot~.  

I’d rather be oh-so-oppressed by being represented as powerful and effectual than represented by my looks and my ability to get Fridged.

So, no, this is not equivalent to the response misogynists had to the idea of studying sexism in video games. This is equivalent to a bunch of entitled boys who have been getting what they wanted in video games for decades, getting together to whine about how women are ruining everything by asking for equal representation.

Bringing this back because relevance.

You know, I’d be pretty interested in an “episodic web video series” that attempts to “examine how males are portrayed in video games and why those portrayals can be damaging.”  But saying that those portrayals are due to misandry is a bit of a stretch in my opinion—unless the argument is about internalized hatred, but that’s not how the word seems to be commonly used.  It’s all especially odd alongside all the men on the internet saying that video games are made by men for men.  

(Source: nyooom)

Obscure Color Words

albicant:
whitish; becoming white
amaranthine:
immortal; undying; deep purple-red colour
aubergine:
eggplant; a dark purple colour
azure:
light or sky blue; the heraldic colour blue
celadon:
pale green; pale green glazed pottery
cerulean:
sky-blue; dark blue; sea-green
chartreuse:
yellow-green colour
cinnabar:
red crystalline mercuric sulfide pigment; deep red or scarlet colour
citrine:
dark greenish-yellow
eburnean:
of or like ivory; ivory-coloured
erythraean:
reddish colour
flavescent:
yellowish or turning yellow
greige:
of a grey-beige colour
haematic:
blood coloured
heliotrope:
purplish hue; purplish-flowered plant; ancient sundial; signalling mirror
hoary:
pale silver-grey colour; grey with age
isabelline:
greyish yellow
jacinthe:
orange colour
kermes:
brilliant red colour; a red dye derived from insects
lovat:
grey-green; blue-green
madder:
red dye made from brazil wood; a reddish or red-orange colour
mauve:
light bluish purple
mazarine:
rich blue or reddish-blue colour
russet:
reddish brown
sable:
black; dark; of a black colour in heraldry
saffron:
orange-yellow
sarcoline:
flesh-coloured
smaragdine:
emerald green
tilleul:
pale yellowish-green
titian:
red-gold, reddish brown
vermilion:
bright red
virid:
green
viridian:
chrome green
xanthic:
yellow
zinnober:
chrome green

12

Jun

Most Whites find it easy to ignore residential segregation. I experienced a good example of this inattention when I told a lunch-table’s worth of White colleagues at the Center for Advanced Studies in the Behavioral Sciences about the linguist John Baugh’s project on “linguistic profiling” (Baugh 2003). Baugh has developed a matched-guise test in which a single speaker uses a “White professional,” a “Latino,” or a “Black” voice in making telephone inquiries about the availability of advertised rentals in the San Francisco Bay area. The “White professional” voice is much more likely to yield an invitation to make an appointment to look at the property, while the other accents are more likely to result in a response that the rental is no longer available. My colleagues, all sophisticated scholars, were genuinely surprised at this result; several mentioned that they had thought that this sort of discrimination had long since disappeared.

Jane H. Hill, The Everyday Language of White Racism (via wretchedoftheearth)

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This is like when me and my white soon-to-be husband were looking for places. I’d call up and they’d say, “Come on down! Get an application!”. Because I don’t “sound” black.

Then I’d walk in 2 minutes later and they’d be all, “Oh. Sorry, we just rented it.”

Then I’d send him in and he’d get an application. 

The best part? Walking back in while he was completing the application. “Oh, they gave you an application? But they told me it was just rented. ODD. THAT. I’m going to report them so let’s just skip this place, m’kay?” The looks on their faces and the pathetic apologies were just too much fun.

Used to deal with the same thing with road trips. Hotels would tell me that there were no vacancies, but my white roommate would go in and get us a room, usually cheaper than advertised.

*****

(via faboomama)

I do similar stuff at restauants and other places of business with my white bf. At least it makes it easier to know where not to go!

(via 23andchildfree)

Reblogging again for the commentary

(via darkjez)

But we’re just supposed to *trust* and think everything is an *isolated* incident.

(via hamburgerjack)

Not so sophisticated scholars, were they? I mean this really, really shouldn’t be all that surprising.

(via stfunithingas)

It shouldn’t be surprising, but I guarantee that most white people find it unbelievable

(via wretchedoftheearth)

I’m going to reblog this every time I see it on my dash. My parents pointed out how this phenomenon worked when we were moving to PA (they’d get steered to crummier neighborhoods and have to insist on being shown others). Housing discrimination is still pretty widespread and the gatekeepers? Tend to either intentionally or due to unchecked bias reinforce the status quo. 

(via invisiblelad)

It always floors me the things people are surprised at. Meanwhile, every person of color is sitting here like, “Oh. Must be another day that ends in Y, and in other news, water is wet.” Like, really, people are surprised by this, and whenever they show surprise at learning stuff that we go through, I have to poker face, lest I end up giving them the most disbelieving side eye in history because how do you NOT know this? But then, you know. Some people have the privilege of being able to be unaware it because it’s not a problem they have to deal with. :/ (via lori-jaye)

Reblogged again for commentary

(via covenesque)

Sounds like my friends when they were looking for a place in Midtown memphis(mostly white liberal middle class area)… they said people would invite them to see the places and then would either suddenly become unavailable or they would just ignore their phone calls.. but the Obama’s said “no more excuses.. work harder”…

(via jcoleknowsbest)

11

Jun

Books are meat and medicine
and flame and flight and flower
steel, stitch, cloud and clout,
and drumbeats on the air.
Gwendolyn Brooks, former poet laureate of the United States and the first African American to be awarded a Pulitzer Prize. Brooks was born on this day, June 7th, in 1917. (via yourathenaeum)

10

Jun

yourathenaeum:

missoulapubliclibrary:

To kick off their summer reading program, Seattle Public Library tries to break a world record for the longest domino book chain.

As if we needed another reason to love them.

So cool! Anyone else tickled to notice that the first book in the chain is titled Before The Fall?

This is mesmerizing.